tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post114973679013516714..comments2023-09-16T07:34:36.539-07:00Comments on Green Parenting: TIPSUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1158772718184424892006-09-20T10:18:00.000-07:002006-09-20T10:18:00.000-07:00My sympathy for you and your family. You asked if ...My sympathy for you and your family. You asked if anyone has had experience with the stage your brother-in-law is at. I think the hardest thing about it is that you never quite know what stage someone is at. <BR/><BR/>I definitely listened to and participated in conversations about what was reasonable intervention for my mother-in-law. There is always this question that comes up in America, "Should every possible invasive medical procedure be done when the sick person's ultimate decline seems inevitable?" If the person is an alcoholic, the question is even more tortured.<BR/><BR/>One doctor basically told us that there are many ways to die from liver failure and that coughing up blood is one of the worst. So the TIPS procedure was done with two minds. It was palliative in that it addressed the most horrible of her symptoms. The procedure also extended her life. My mother-in-law is living at home now with my father-in-law. I haven't seen her for months and I won't hazard a guess at her current "habits." But she certainly hasn't induced another trip to the hospital. So, in her case, I think surgical intervention was the right way to go.<BR/><BR/>It's really hard for me to tell if your brother-in-law is at a similar point to where my mother-in-law was, or if he is further gone. My sincere wishes for the best possible outcome for your family whatever that may mean.GreenDaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900051514824318419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1158682776314463022006-09-19T09:19:00.000-07:002006-09-19T09:19:00.000-07:00my brother-in-law was just rushed to the hospital ...my brother-in-law was just rushed to the hospital for the upteenth time although this time he has been coughing up blood and disoriented which was the only way they could get him to the hospital (he was refusing to go)a chronic alcoholic...i pray that God takes him quickly now...his drinking has caused so much pain and suffering in this family...i just wish they all find a little peace. had a conversation with my sister-in-law (no his wife) about just how much we want the doctors to do for him...does anyone have experience at this stage...don't believe the family has any living wills or a dnr..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1152208492557161452006-07-06T10:54:00.000-07:002006-07-06T10:54:00.000-07:00Minnie, my sympathy for you and your father. My mo...Minnie, my sympathy for you and your father. My mother-in-law had the TIPS procedure about one month ago and she is, on the whole, doing better. At the time, she had potentially fatal symptoms from her failing liver, like heavy bleeding in her stomach and throat. The TIPS procedure ended those problems. She stabalized and was able to leave the ICU. Although the bleeding stopped and the fluid build-up lessened significantly, her dinginess (or encephalopathy as the doctors say) did not go away. <BR/><BR/>Right now, my mother-in-law is staying in a rehab/nursing home. She can now walk a little using a walker. But because of the encephalopathy, the insurance company does not consider her eligible for further rehab and she will soon be sent home. I am pretty amazed by how well she is doing considering that she nearly died right in front of me. At the same time, her situation seems very bleak.GreenDaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900051514824318419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1149886297739557302006-06-09T13:51:00.000-07:002006-06-09T13:51:00.000-07:00Thank you for your comments. Miah's stepmom is doi...Thank you for your comments. Miah's stepmom is doing better, but still in the hospital and quite sick.GreenDaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08900051514824318419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1149866194578567332006-06-09T08:16:00.000-07:002006-06-09T08:16:00.000-07:00Oh, my! I am so sorry! I will definately pray for ...Oh, my! I am so sorry! I will definately pray for a good outcome!Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13494610442275567164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1149772330227779452006-06-08T06:12:00.000-07:002006-06-08T06:12:00.000-07:00So sad :( Much hope and possible energy to Miahs'...So sad :( <BR/><BR/>Much hope and possible energy to Miahs' stepmother. <BR/><BR/>My father died of lung cancer when I was 14, and to this day my mother still smokes around 1-2 packs a day. She's had SEVEN heart attacks. She has emphysema. She continues to consciouslly poison herself....I don't understand it. <BR/><BR/>Here's hoping that she does very well :)quixoticmantishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10677563990027200409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1149766757714050702006-06-08T04:39:00.000-07:002006-06-08T04:39:00.000-07:00Julie let me know about this post. I'm very sorry ...Julie let me know about this post. I'm very sorry to hear about your Step Mom and pray the surgery goes well.<BR/><BR/>My Mum passed away from liver cirrosis after years of alcoholism last October, so I know a lot about the progression of liver illness.<BR/><BR/>What I can say that, if the damage were "too severe," there would be no way that the doctors would suggest this TIPS surgery due to the possibility of internal bleeding, etc. The fact that they see a way to "buy more time" is hopeful because based on my experience, they wouldn't attempt without the possibility of success.<BR/><BR/>It's not often that someone can say they really know how you feel, but I do and I offer you any support I can. Feel free to email me with any questions you might have.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Best,<BR/>Kate (ouicestca@gmail.com)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16788602.post-1149743670407717662006-06-07T22:14:00.000-07:002006-06-07T22:14:00.000-07:00I'm hoping for you. xoxo, JulieI'm hoping for you. xoxo, JulieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com